Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

Friday, March 22, 2013

Footprints




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Vivian Leigh once said that,

"Life is too short to work so hard."   [Tweet This Thought].

In keeping with these periods of time available to us in short supply, I present to you something short to inspire you, 50 words to be precise.


Six years. Finally, Zack's startup was showing some promise. Zack was tired - no salary or vacation for months and usually no weekends. "You could easily have made a lot of money elsewhere." his friend remarked. Zack smiled, "But the chance to leave your footprints somewhere - before anyone else, is priceless."




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Monday, March 18, 2013

How To Take Charge Of Your Complicated Life ? F?@K KNOWS




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You will read, but not understand.
You will understand, but not do.
You will do, but not understand what you did.
Does it make a difference?


Truth be told, I never had a good impression about this book when I first saw it. In fact, upon its arrival at my home, the book had to kept under the covers and only read when there was solitude, partly because of the eye-catching color and fonts on the cover page. In many Indian households, the F word is still held as a taboo by the families. I myself was criticized by my mother for reading such books which "play around with the minds of the youth and spoil them."

However, as soon as I started reading the first page of the book and continued into the book, my fears & apprehensions started to get dispelled. I realized what a gem of a book this is and that the Author, Shailendra Singh actually spoke some sense. Actually, he spoke my mind and talked about all those notions and ideas which have been present in my mind for the past 1-2 years now.

Before we move into the review of this book, I wish to warn the readers and offer my own disclaimer as well.
Read this book at your own risk. It is FULL of abuses, euphemisms, dirty language, detailed description of erotic stories and love making. Reader discretion is advised
Having said that, let me make a point very clear and I know that the author will agree with me. This is definitely not about the abuses. It does not teach you how to abuse people. My personal request to all the readers of this book is to capture the essence of this book and not be distracted by all the abusive language. If you succeed in doing that, then this book is a gem and one meant for collection purposes. 

Now, with the disclaimer out of the way, let's get into the book review. 



The Specifications




Title - F?@K Knows
Author - Shailendra Singh
Place - New Delhi
Publisher - Rupa Publications
Pages - 248
Price - Rs. 195/-
ISBN - 978-81-291-2388-6


The Externals




The cover has been designed by Nicole Sottung. One look at the cover tells the reader, that this book has been made keeping the youth in mind. The cover uses generous doses of bright, vibrant colors such as yellow, red and black fonts. These bright shades might be attributed to the brighter outlook towards life and career, which the book speaks about in its various chapters.

The spray can effect on the fonts both in the title of the book as well as in the author's name, in a way reaches out to the rebellious nature of today's young generation. The cover also includes small icons depicting a cricket bat, ice cream cone and most notably, a bottle of liquor. More on the significance of these icons later on in this review.


The Author




The Author is Shailendra Singh, most notably known as the Co-founder of Percept Media and also the concept owner of the Sunburn Festival
In the year 1987, 20-year old Shailendra left his career as a professional cricketer in English County and stumbled into the world of advertising, to join his elder brother Harindra as a partner in a 3-year old advertising business, Percept Advertising. 
In 1994, he setup Percept D'mark (PDM). In a short span of time PDM became India's leading Experiential and Sports Marketing Agency.
Read more about this man in his profile page.


The Internals




The author dedicates his first published work to the Universe. The presence of a table of contents reveals that the book has been divided into chapters and headings but no numbering of these chapters. In this way, the author has come up with some really cool and wacky names for the different chapters. 
The author gets into Author mode from the disclaimer page itself and the readers gets a peek into his witty and humorous side.

It is in the 'How to Read this book' section, that my hunches about the cover picture turn out to be true. The author gives detailed suggestions on various methods and places where you could read this book and that too, enjoyably. The Author tops up his suggestions with the names of his favorite brand of Liquor. These suggestions explains the reason behind the Liquor bottle occupying the central spot on the front cover. 

Basically, the book is a collection of the Author's experiences which he has collected through these years of existence. That's the reason why, he warns the audience in the Preface section that he does not have the answers to all the questions which plague the youth of today. 


Reactions and Experiences




The book is a wonderful delight to read and the amount of lessons to be learnt from this book is enormous. The author makes use of short to very short sentences and easy to understand vocabulary, which underscore the importance of the message which he's trying to send across and the impact he wishes to generate. 
Throughout the book, he urges the readers to read the instructions and then keep the book down to actually perform the exercises or activity which he speaks about.
The main objective of the author is to get his message across and inspire the youth to do things which they like doing, which their heart tells them to do. 

Consider this thought on detachment,

"They say the key to enlightenment is detachment. Detaching oneself from desire and from the mind. Dissociating from mind-generated thoughts. Stop identifying with them, because they are not you. They are not your true essence. Your true essence has to become the watcher of those thoughts."

On being a loser, the author says,

"If a kid doesn't aspire to be something that society deems 'incredible', then they are already made to feel like a loser."

On the thought of leaving behind,

"I guess I realized that, at the end of the day, I wanted my work to create more than profits. When the time for me to leave this world came, I wanted to leave behind more than balance sheets, bank accounts and receipts."

On the thought of having options in life,

"In life, you get messages from up there, out there. You get signs to tell you there are doors and options open to you. But then, the call is yours. If you notice, you usually have two options in all circumstances, and you generally tend to pick the one that you are most comfortable with. Hardly anyone takes the path that is challenging and unknown. But the option is there."

On the difference between being Rich and being Wealthy,

"In a way, I believe that it is the money that you have earned, that makes you 'rich'. It is the money that you spend that makes you 'wealthy'. Wealthy is the state of the mind that you get from using your riches for your enjoyment."


The Hits




The book is full of personal experiences of the author which taught him a lot about life and now he passes on those treasures of learning to the youth of this age. I personally learnt a lot of new things from this book. Let me give you an example. 
TIL (Today I Learned) that there are more neurons located in a 9-meter section of the gut (Enteric Nervous System) than are found in the spinal cord or the brain, combined. In fact, the Gut is usually referred to as the 'Second Brain' of our body. 
It's actually true and  you can read up about this at the following links:

How the Gut's 'second brain' influences mood and well being

Enteric Nervous System



The Misses




Well, apart from the usual typos and the high frequency of abusive words and obscene language, the book is a wonderful read. People who find such language offensive might find it difficult to go through the book. In fact, the author himself suggests that the reader read through the book one chapter at a time, as the messages it contains might take some time to sink in. So, he urges the readers to think it through. 


The Final Verdict



As a wrap-up to this review, all I can say is that- go for this book. There are many points at which you would feel inspired while reading this book and this should lift the spirits of many of you out there who're battling it out in their lives. This book will teach you how to follow your heart and your gut instincts-no matter what happens.




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Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Lost

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Dion Boucicault once said that,


"Men talk of killing time while time quietly kills them."
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He did have a point when he said this but more than that he had enormous amount of foresight. 
Why do I say foresight, you may ask? 

That's simply because this single quote/thought holds true regardless of our race, nationality and is valid across various time periods. Time is an essential commodity in a human's life, however, the majority of us fail to efficiently utilize the time which we have on our hands.

In keeping with the chaotic and busy lives of all of my readers out there, I'm presenting a short story to you.
Ok, so how short is this story?
50 words to be precise and it is my first attempt at writing a fictional piece in exactly 50 words, nothing more, nothing less. That's my contribution to the byte-sized information gobbling internet user of today's time.

Here it goes, then. 


Anthony was completely lost. He was thwarted. His problem was straightforward. He couldn't figure out his exact location. Naturally, he was clueless regarding the direction or the distance to his destination. After struggling for a while, he realized what the actual problem was - he was carrying the wrong map!



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Friday, February 22, 2013

20 Quotes To Get You Charged Up In The Morning




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  1. "Just as a candle cannot burn without fire, men cannot live without a spiritual life." - Buddha [Tweet This Thought].
  2. "Life is like riding a bicycle, you don't fall off unless you plan to stop peddling." - Claude Pepper  [Tweet This Thought].
  3. "All of the animals except for man know that the principle business of life is to enjoy it." - Samuel Butler  [Tweet This Thought].
  4. "If you haven't fought for your life for something you want, you don't know what's life all about." - Robert Stone  [Tweet This Thought].
  5. "A life is black, whiten it as you will." - E. H. Chapin   [Tweet This Thought].
  6. "Life is measured by the rapidity of change, the succession of influences that modify the being." - George Eliot   [Tweet This Thought].
  7. "Life is hard, after all it kills you!" - Katharine Hepburn   [Tweet This Thought].
  8. "Chaos often breeds life, when order breeds habit." - Henry Adams   [Tweet This Thought].
  9. "One word frees us of all the weight & pain of life: that word is Love." - Sophocles   [Tweet This Thought].
  10. "We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give." - Winston Churchill   [Tweet This Thought].
  11. "My whole life is waiting for the questions to which I have prepared answers." - Tom Stoppard   [Tweet This Thought].
  12. "I wish I had known earlier that you have all the time you'll need right up to the day you die." - William Wiley   [Tweet This Thought].
  13. "No matter how fast light travels it finds the darkness has always got there first and is waiting for it" - Terry Pratchett   [Tweet This Thought].
  14. "It only takes one person to change your life - You." - Ruth Casey   [Tweet This Thought].
  15. "The more you eat, the less flavor; the less you eat, the more flavor." - Chinese Proverb   [Tweet This Thought].
  16. "If you don't care for your body, where are you going to live?" - Unknown   [Tweet This Thought].
  17. "There are no limitations to the human mind except those we acknowledge." - Napoleon Hill   [Tweet This Thought].
  18. "Whether you think that you can, or that you can't, you're usually right." - Henry Ford   [Tweet This Thought].
  19. "By working faithfully 8 hours a day you may eventually get to be boss and work 12 hours a day" - Robert Frost   [Tweet This Thought].
  20. "There are 2 ways to make the leap of faith-either you're self motivated or someone pushes you to jump" - Jay Singh   [Tweet This Thought].


The last quote is a bonus addition to the list, fresh out of the confines of my mind. 


Which quote did you like? Which quotes are your personal favorites? Which quote would you add to this list? 
Share this with your loved ones, because you may or may not know about these quotes but someone else could read it and get inspired.




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Monday, February 11, 2013

3 Ways To Stop Constraints From Becoming Obstacles




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Referring to the subject of constraints, Ronald Reagan once said that,


"There are no constraints on the human mind, no walls around the human spirit, no barriers to our progress except those we ourselves erect."


Yes, constraints are a way of life and no matter how hard we try, they always keep cropping up in the most unlikeliest of ways. Look around you, there are so many people in your lives who are creating constraints for you every single day.

Your boss demands superior performance from you and for that you have to listen to loads of bantering and suffer the wrath of the boss's temperamental side. You're constrained from taking any action.
Your clients want top notch delivery and they are literally breathing down your neck; you're constrained.
Your spouse feels you do not pay any attention to them and they stop talking to you; you're constrained here again.
Your kids, your family and basically the entire environment and society in which you live in is a continuous source of constraints.

So, what do you do? How do you deal with it? In this post, we shall see 3 ways in which you can change your outlook towards these constraints and try to use them to your advantage instead of simply ruing their presence in your life.


  1. Constraints results in adjacency which results in innovation



    Let's suppose you live in a huge mansion with 20 bedrooms, hundreds of square feet of space and with only 3 members of the family living in that house. Just imagine, the number of times these members would be interacting with one another. Compare that to another scenario where the same family is inhabiting a household of just a few hundred square feet, let's say 500 square feet. The amount of interactions instantly shoot up, the members are literally bumping into one another throughout the day. There is a constant struggle for space and who gets to do what. Sometimes, it even leads to tension but it also leads to problem solving and finding the best possible solution to the problems.

    This is what has been and is still happening in the best business corporations the world over. They're embracing the open office space culture wherein all employees including the bosses sit in open bays rather than cabins. The employees are allowed more break times, leisure time for frivolous activies to improve the chances of interactions and thereby resulting in some form of innovation.


    Today's Advice Constraints leads to proximity which leads to innovation [tweet this].

  2. Constraints can help you in getting quick assessments



    While working with limited resources, the clients or the key stake holders would be keeping a close watch on you. This constant vigil actually results in increased efficiency in the output. When we keep restricting our timelines, our resources and our circle of influence, it results in getting more amount of work done and ultimately leads to a professional finish to the task. This aspect is expertly utilized by the manager of the biggest sporting clubs around the world. 


    Today's Advice Constraints get you quick Feedback [tweet this].

      
  3. Constraints can aid in the creation process


    Although we hate a constrained life and would love to luxuriate in all things easy and attainable, constraints are actually the doorway to creating something which is magical, mind-boggling and utterly creative, all at the same time.

    The best example for this is the novel Gadsby which has been authored by Ernest Vincent Wright. The book is a story which has over 50,000 words but written without the letter 'e'. Imagine writing even 100 words without the letter 'e'. 

    We've all heard the famous adage,

    "Think out-of-the-box"

    But we must remember that it is only when we constrict ourselves to the box, that we're actually able to think of ways of getting outside the box. 


    Today's Advice Constraints can aid in the process of Creation [tweet this].


How do you deal with the constraints and restrictions in your life? What other methods do you use to overcome these hurdles? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.




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Saturday, February 2, 2013

Warning-A ‘RIP’ping Tale Of Corruption & Conspiracy In India



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Benjamin Franklin once said, “Rebellion against Tyrants is obedience to God.” 
Profound words and history is witness to this fact. Whenever the levels of injustice, conspiracy, scams, fear and anger have gone up in a country and its citizens, it has always lead to uprisings and rebellions among the daring few. Sometimes, the very protectors of the country take up the task of rebellion, in order to safeguard the larger interest of the entire population.

Such is the tale of the book RIP authored by Mukul Deva and not only is this a RIPping account of the Indian Government and its working but it also moves at a ripping pace as well. Here is a hands-on review of the book, RIP.


The Specifications



Title – RIP
Author – Mukul Deva
Place – Manipal (Printing)
Publisher – Westland Ltd.
Pages – 299
Price – Rs.200
ISBN – 978-93-82618-19-5


The Externals



The Cover design, done by Saurav Das, makes generous use of orange and yellowish tinges and captures the interest of the reader’s eyes. Saurav Das is a veteran in terms of book cover designs and has many book covers to his name. Both the front & back cover display the deft use of testimonials and praises showered on the author by leading media & publication houses.

The cover features two very significant objects which are used extensively throughout the book. One, is the syringe needle pointing downwards from the top and the second one is a bullet (apparently it looks like a 7.62 x 54 mm bullet from a Russian SVD)pointing upwards from the bottom. The cover promises on a lot of adrenaline pumping action and manages to deliver on that as well.


The Author



The author of the book is Mukul Deva, an alumnus of La Martiniere, Lucknow. He has also undergone training at the National Defence Academy, Pune and The Indian Military Academy, Dehradun. He was commissioned in the Sikh Light Infantry of Indian Army in 1981. After a successful stint at the Indian Army, Mukul has now turned his attention to his love for writing and motivational speaking. He also has a series of books to his name which span genres. such as, Lashkar, Salim must die, Blowback, Tanzeem, The Dust will never settle and now, RIP.

The author has been compared to the likes of Robert Ludlum and Tom Clancy and has a dozen or so testimonials present both inside as well as outside the book.



The Plot & the Characters


The plot begins at full throttle from page one itself. The entire plot is based around a retired Colonel Krishna Athawale who was a part of the elite 19th Para Commando and his team of five ex-Special Forces servicemen. They call themselves the K-team, simply because of the fact that all of their first names begins with the letter K. The K-team is out on a mission to restore balance and integrity to an otherwise corrupt and decaying Indian Political and Judicial set-up. Being fed up of the non-violent and Gandhian methods of changing the face of the nation, Col. Krishna and his team take it upon themselves, the task of eliminating the corrupt, the power hungry and the criminals who went scot free. It is here we are reveled the name of the book and the name of their anti-government group called RIP, which stands for Resurgent Indian Patriots (RIP).

Colonel Krishna is an army man who has everything good for him during his years in the army, when all of a sudden during the IC-814 airplance hijacking happens and in the process loses his wife, Pooja in the firing. The terrorists are gunned down but Krishna realizes that the bullet which killed Pooja had been fired from one of the guns of the K-team, possibly his own. After the accident, Krishna quits the Army while he was still a Colonel and alongwith him the entire K-team also quits the Army. Krishna, the estranged single parent, gives his best to raise his only son, Sachin while trying to fight the demons of the memories of that fateful accident. 

Col. Krishna believes that the Political machinery in our country has decayed beyond repair and the only way to bring justice is by using the factor of fear. According to him, fear is not always seen as something dreadful, fear can even motivate people. 

"Honor. Integrity. Honesty. Patriotism. These words meant nothing to these shameless people. But they would understand fear. Death, he knew, was the ultimate motivator."

The author delves into the mind of Krishna and we see that he is torn between fighting for a cause  in this manner and risking the lives of his own, his team mates as well as that of the innocent citizens of the country. Krishna repeatedly questions the path which he had chosen and taken his team along with him. 

The other main protagonists of the story include Raghav Bhagat, Vinod Bedi and Reena Bhagat.

Raghav Bhagat is also an ex-Special Forces man and had served in the 11th Para Commando. However, Raghav can do anything for money and has a fetish for good looking women and is always seeking out to satisfy his carnal desires. He's arrogant, hot-headed and easily becomes jealous. 

Reena Bhagat is Raghav's a wife and is presently working in NDTV as a news reporter. She's a small town girl who has her morals & ethics clearly listed out. Both Raghav &  Bhagat have a son from their relationship, Azaan. However, their marriage is now on the rocks since the time when Reena found Raghav sleeping with another woman. Betrayed by Raghav, she is unable to trust another man in her life again. That's till the time she has a chance encounter with Krishna and realizes that she must move on in her life. 

Vinod Bedi is Special Director, heading the Special Crimes Division of the CBI. He's a man on a mission to uncover the truth behind RIP and their true identities. Vinod is himself battling a failing marriage. The Home Minister, DM Karunakaran, appoints him to the case. However, along with Vinod, Raghav is also appointed to this case as his own pawn whom he can control and get things done. 


The Reactions & Experiences


The action takes place at break neck speed and across major cities of India such as Delhi, Mumbai, Lucknow. It is in the author's note that we come to know of the true intent of writing this story. 

"This book was born out of an extreme sense of anger and shame. Anger, at the appalling, naked greed so shamelessly displayed by the Indian Political class. And shame that they happen to be fellow-Indians."

The author manages to make the reader hooked on to the book and keep turning its pages till the very end. The direct reference to major leaders of political parties and the who's who of the actual Indian political set-up, makes it an interesting read as the reader keeps guessing the reference to the real-life counterparts. 


The Hits


The author has packed in an action thriller which kept me awake till the wee hours in order to finish the book. He has made deft use of his military and combat knowledge and drawn references to guns, ammunition and covert operations. The author also showcases the techno-geek side of his personality with the help of latest gadgets and apps. 

In fact, I found a very useful and handy app in this book as well. Tiger Text, which launched some time back, is used for SMSs to other phones with a limited time of availability. After the stipulated time, the message deletes automatically from the receiver's system. 


The Misses

Somehow, while reading the book, I felt that the number of chance encounters were quite high. The lives of the protagonists kept crossing each other's life at regular intervals of time. In fact, at certain points, the narration of one character runs parallel to three other characters, all of them at the same place and same time. I did find this a bit strange as also the fact that K-team practically manages a flawless clean sweep without getting hurt, except for one instance when a bullet from a sniper grazes the back of one of the members. Again, the K-team has been shown as an invincible team which can neither be broken nor be harmed. An element of in-fighting within the group or heated disagreements could have made things more interesting.

The climax, too, I feel could have been dealt a little bit differently in my opinion. The elements of chance seemed to peek through them. 

The book also has its shares of typos at different intervals in the book.

The Final Verdict


All in all, RIP by Mukul Deva is an entertainment package but it also shows the decayed underpinnings of our Indian Political system. It just goes to show that the politicians are absolutely abusing the powers which we the people bestow upon them. The book shows the readers how politicians break our trust time and again.

A good, adrenaline packed read for a nice weekend evening. Go ahead and let your hours pass away at RIPping speed.




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Sunday, January 27, 2013

10 Things To Stop Doing To Yourself To Enjoy Life




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William Lyon Phelps once said that,


"There is a strange reluctance on the part of most people to admit they enjoy life." 


We all know that this quote applies to many people out there but are you nodding in affirmation to the above quote?
Are you one of those people who have just been living on a day-to-day basis with no clearly defined goals or path? 
What's stopping you from enjoying your life to the fullest and being content with whatever you've got or achieved till now?

In this post, we shall see 10 things which might have been hindering or stopping you from extracting the maximum amount of joy from your lives. See for yourself and check whether any of the points from the list applies to you. Most importantly, check whether you have stopped the activity which stops you from enjoying life.



 1.

     Stop going into inertia

     Inertia is the tendency of an object to resist any change in its motion or state of rest. Once an individual goes into a state of inertia, he/she might be caught in a loop of activity wherein it becomes difficult to escape the routine. Inertia can cause a lot of dissatisfaction in an individual. Most of the times, especially in this modern age, it becomes highly imperative to keep doing engaging in newer activities to increase the likelihood of innovation. Read about how to break the routine.

Today's Advice Stop going into Inertia [tweet this].


 2.

     Stop being afraid of committing mistakes

     We all know the old adage "To err is human". However, how many of us really follow this principle? Rarely few. In fact, we've been taught since childhood that committing mistakes a bad thing and this belief has been brain washed into our minds. Truth is, mistakes are what have led people to achieve greatest heights, to invent, to make new discoveries and to register their names in the History books. 

Today's Advice Stop being afraid of committing mistakes [tweet this].

 3.

     Stop complaining

     In Life, things do not always go the way we wanted them to. People will disappoint most of the times and there will be hurdles a lot of the times. Stop complaining and become a stronger person with each incoming hurdle and setback. Complaints are excuses for your own shortcomings and you’ll notice the difference in your morale once you stop complaining.

Today's Advice Stop complaining [tweet this].

 4.

     Stop chasing perfection

     A perfect or an ideal case does not exist in practical life, so stop chasing it. In the pursuit of perfection, you would end up not taking any action at all. One must remember that there is no substitute for pure execution of a work, don’t spend too much time fretting over details and getting everything perfect.

Today's Advice Stop chasing perfection [tweet this].

 5.

     Stop blaming

     Humans have a tendency of taking credit for all the adulation and praise whereas whenever there is a fault, we are quick to blame other people. We have no right to blame others, more so, if we have not gathered all the facts and the details. Usually, it is our own folly which leads to a failure/setback/mistake. So, think before blaming others.

Today's Advice Stop blaming [tweet this].

 6.

     Stop worrying

     The most important feature of the habit of worrying is that it has no impact on your tomorrow/future. But it ruins your today and snatches your happiness away from you. Don’t let that happen to you. Stop worrying about matters which have no concern or have no impact on you down the line. Useless worrying about every other matter gets you no where and degrades your health.

Today's Advice Stop worrying [tweet this].

 7.

     Stop expecting

     Do you know the root cause of all our feelings, emotions and our sadness/sorrow? It is expectations. It is only when we expect a certain behavior or a certain outcome/result, do we start experiencing emotional setbacks. We tend to get sad, happy, angry, oblivious, anxious, or scared, all due to expectations. If one stops expecting, everything comes as a gift to you and as a surprise.

Today's Advice Stop expecting [tweet this].

 8.

     Stop becoming idle

     Don’t sit around thinking about the consequences and your shortcomings. Act now. Be in the moment. Start doing.

Today's Advice Stop becoming idle [tweet this].

 9.

     Stop trying to become someone else

     All of us are unique, just like everyone else. Yes, that’s right; there’ll never be another you. So, stop imitating people and trying to become a person whom you’re not, that’s highly unjust for such a valuable individual such as you. Learn to recognize your own strengths and act upon it.

Today's Advice Stop trying to become someone else [tweet this].

10.

     Stop seeing death with fearful eyes

     Death is inevitable. No one has ever escaped it. However, most people don’t realize this. They waste the precious time which they have on mindless pursuit of materialistic gains. Remember to use death as a powerful motivator to achieve your goals. Don’t believe me? Watch Steve Jobs speak about life, death and his experiences. 

Today's Advice Stop seeing death with fearful eyes [tweet this].



Which of the points applies to you the most?
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